Narcissists

When there is a painful trauma growth is often stifled. Proper development of body and mind is not accomplished and our minds and soul develop a dark place where we are not conscious or aware. [1] We may not feel whole and desire to be fulfilled by destructive practices at the expense of others.
Relationships Between Narcissists and Empaths[2] can be said to have many Stages in and endless cycle takes away the life there of.[3]
Trauma bonding often happens in romantic relationships, however, it can also occur between colleagues, non-romantic family members, and friends.
The narcissist begins with and manifest numerous characteristics in a pattern of behavior:
1. Love Bombing[4]
2. Trust and Dependency[5]
3. Criticism[6]
4. Gaslighting[7]
5. Resigning to Control[8]
6. Loss of Self[9]
7. Addiction[10]
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To break the bonds:
No Secret Self Blame[11]
Know thy self[12]
Know the enemy [13]
Know the power [14]
Know your patterns, old and new[15]
Know the now[16]
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Parliamentary procedure[17] problems
* Weightier matters
* Intellectual Dark Web and the blind leading the blind.[18]
* Godly constitutions[19] and faulty models and the big picture like climate.
* The electoral college and the Mysteries of the Universe. * Jordan Peterson, I act as if God is the existing one.
* "I AM[20] THAT I AM"[21] None is good.[22]
* Michael Malice and the theory of government form is not the soul of society.
Narcissistic personality disorder
- “Narcissistic personality disorder is named for Narcissus, from Greek mythology, who fell in love with his own reflection. Freud used the term to describe persons who were self-absorbed, and psychoanalysts have focused on the narcissist’s need to bolster his or her self-esteem through grandiose fantasy, exaggerated ambition, exhibitionism, and feelings of entitlement.”—Donald W. Black
Narcissistic State
- Narcissistic Spirit
- ) Lack of Empathy
- ) Little evidence of Remorse
- ) No compromise, expecting privilege and entitlement.
- ) Deceptive yet justified with an attitude of supremacy.
- ) Feign compassion but will rage with angry demands.
- ) Emotionally Dependent expecting support and admiration.
- ) Uses verbal, emotional, financial, sexual, legal or physical abuse to batter for Control.
Narcissists are often unaware of what they are doing. They are a respecter of persons, but only their person.
They do have evidence of empathetic feelings they require the people about them(victims) are expected, even required, to be a respecter of persons specifically their person.
While they are manipulative it is largely subconsciously manifested and unquestioned by them.
While a Sociopath is generally conscious and are in need of being in control of their reality, and of others who are part of their constructed reality.
There may not be much difference at times and we should not limit Narcissism to the extreme version of Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Narcissism involves arrogant, manipulative, selfish, power motives, and vanity.
A narcissist can appear to change their identity because they have no fixed identity of their own.
The Narcissist like sociopaths may be the result of unresolved trauma or a life growing up with other people who project their personality into the tender emerging individual.
Need to control
When narcissist loses control they also lose self they need the victim more to maintain their identity which is actually very fragile.
The victim is also addicted to their victimhood for deep down they also get a sense of power and purpose from their "narcissist". These dark souls Mates cling together.
The narcissist needs a sense of superiority which requires the world to be wicked in their eyes. Their judgement of the players and and persons in their world of "all things wicked" leaves the narcissist and their "Mate" both are a respecter of persons.
As long as the relation is reaffirmed it remains mutually destructive.
If the drift away or turn back they may be violently attacked like the battered wife or the retransitioning transteen or the woke who begins to awaken like a Democrat who goes MAGA.
DEI
The modern “Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion” (“DEI”) policies, programs, and practices in fact produce the opposite effect that they purport to pursue.
The four pillars of DEI include diversity, equity, and inclusion, but also belonging or at least a sense of belonging and an illusion or delusion of value as long as you remain a true and faithful follower of its dogma.
DEI is a religion or at least it replace the roll of the religion of Abraham, Moses and Christ. DEI is the Latin term for "god".
DEI is the religion you get when you don't have the morals, courage, and compassionate heart to practice real Religion.
DEI as an ideology will also promote democratic socialism because:
- "Socialism is the religion you get when you have no Pure Religion."
Democratic socialism leads to communism and DEI is the ideology of neo-communism.
Unlike Neo-Marxist Theory which is defined as an approach that emphasizes class struggle as the primary factor influencing revolutionary situations and outcomes, neo-communism through the DEI ideology emphasizes race or other elements of identity politics in the world.
The goal remains to demoralize the masses through a cultivation of envy and covetousness.
Diversity is about division: The division of individual from individual by the degeneration of those social bonds that come through systems of fervent charity is the goal of the would be tyrants of the world so institutions of charity must be replaced by public or legal charity. DEI will glorify this division as diversity while anyone who strays from the fundamental ideology as heretical. Equity is about inequality: Equity claims cannot be pursued without coveting the production of the more fruitful members or even non members. And there must be a power that can exercise authority appearing as benefactors by enforcing redistribution.
Inclusion requires exclusion: Since DEI is a religion they will attack all religions who do not embrace their unique ideology.
All these elements of the world of DEI require the participants to conform to the precept of being a respecter of persons which leads people to become Narcissists and their victim.
Emotional vampire
How do you know a narcissist is an emotional vampire?
- Their love of mirrors. Narcissists are often characterized as egotistical and self-centered. But are they manipulative?
Are they are evil or merely victims of other Narcissists? Their behavior can be harmful but it may be rooted in deep-seated insecurities they never desired and laced with internal guilt. If they refuse to see their part in this original trauma they may feel an addiction for emotional or validation.
Narcissists are willing to exploit for the validation like an addict who needs a fix. They use people and will sacrifice or discard them like trash. They lack guilt and feel no real care and will despise those that expose them.
Narc bait
People who are extremely caring and empathetic by habit[2] will often draw to themself the narcissist personality.
They are attracted to these caring individuals because they there need to serve others may create a vulnerability. The narcissist can sense they can take advantage of their vulnerability and is drawn to the individual who may desire to exploit their weakness like an alcoholic desires another drink.
You must know your self if you desire a relationship with others and never change who you are for other people’s acceptance, attention, or emotional support.
Make sure that what you are doing for others are actually good acts strengthening others. Your natural desire to give, share, and serve must always be tempered by practical wisdom. Without a proper measure of "tough love" mixed into your charity claim of good intentions may not truly be kindness.
If you find it difficult to say know and often support the sloth and avarice of others you mat have a selfish addiction to sacrificing yourself to others. Your giving may be a form of self sacrifice like the cutter who damages themselves for some form of emotional high.
If you have a history of being taken advantage of by others and seem more confused by their abuse than you are willing to see your own part in the process, you may be "Narc bait".
The temptation presented by those seemingly weak and compliant souls is as much a part of the narcissist relationship cycle. The helpless female, the damsel in distress, or playing the "dumb blond" are often ploys that are used to trap a man but often backfire and attract a narcissist. We see this with the Jezebel[23].
We should be true to ourselves which is why both men and women need to be honest in their quest for those essential truths about ourselves, others and the world we live in.
It isn’t worth it to loose yourself trying to protect yourself from the narcissist if you will not first love yourself, serve something higher than yourself and those you think you are serving. You must set proper boundaries in your acts of kindness to really be kind to people. Do not be a people pleaser. Be willing to loose those who say you are their friend or that say they love you.
Do not be afraid to be put down or rejected by by those who should love you. If you do kind things so that people will love you or hesitate holding people accountable for fear of their rejection you will draw the narcissist to you.
The best defense from the control of a narcissist is to be willing to see the truth, first, about yourself, the world and then that which created it.
The blind narcissist
- “Though they are quick to put others down, unhealthy narcissists view themselves in absolutely positive terms.” Daniel Goleman
What does a narcissist feel when they make a mistake?
- Nothing.
“There’s a reason narcissists don’t learn from mistakes and that’s because they never get past the first step which is admitting that they made one.” —Jeffrey Kluger
Narcissists never claim responsibility for what they have done wrong.
The Narcissist can feel their life is wasted and may desire subconsciously to create their-self over in someone else.
They may have betrayed and abandoned all those they claimed they have ever loved only to desire to leave the spirit they have secretly served their whole life in another person. They will show no remorse in changing but by the abuse of another child their faith in that spirit of pride they may be found believing that their "redemption" will be through another.
The evil has possessed the choices of the narcissist for so long that it will desire to pass its spiritual pattern on to someone else.
Or take revenge through a devilish redemption of false love.
- “He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals.”—Benjamin Franklin
Machiavellianism
Related personality traits include: Psychopathy, Machiavellianism. Narcissists tend to have high self-esteem.
“The narcissist devours people, consumes their output, and casts the empty, writhing shells aside.” —Sam Vaknin
Machiavellianism is "the employment of cunning and duplicity in statecraft or in general conduct".
The word comes from the Italian Renaissance diplomat and writer Niccolò Machiavelli Wrote The Prince.
In modern psychology, Machiavellianism is one of the dark triad personalities, characterized by a duplicitous interpersonal style, a cynical disregard for morality and a focus on self-interest and personal gain.
Machiavellianism is also a term that some social and personality psychologists use to describe a person's tendency to be unemotional, and therefore able to detach him or herself from conventional morality and hence to deceive and manipulate others.
In the 1960s, Richard Christie and Florence L. Geis developed a test for measuring a person's level of Machiavellianism (sometimes referred to as the Machiavelli test).[24]
Psychopathy
Psychopathy, also known as—though sometimes differentiated from—sociopathy. is traditionally defined as a personality disorder with symptoms such as antisocial behavior, diminished empathy and remorse, and disinhibited or bold behavior.
Psychopathy Socially, it expresses extensive callous and manipulative self-serving behaviors with no regard for others, and often is associated with repeated delinquency, crime and violence, but may also present itself in other, maybe even successful social settings. Mentally, impairments in processes related to affect (emotion) and cognition, particularly socially related mental processes,
- “A sociopath is one who sees others as impersonal objects to be manipulated to fulfill their own narcissistic needs without any regard for the hurtful consequences of their selfish actions.”—R. Alan Woods
Countering Narcissism
Social welfare through the governments that exercise authority is the Narcissists playground. An appetite for benefits of such benefactors and a delight in the dainties of rulers leads the participants into darkness where their eyes are dimmed. They will degenerate where there is no light in society. The nature of the narcissist and there self martyred victims will progress as they are devoured one of another.[25]
The spirit of Cain, Nimrod, Pharaoh, Caesar, and Herod manifested the blindness of the narcissist as they enticed there citizenry with “bread and circuses”. In the social toxicity of such systems relationship are poisoned and narcissism thrives.
Fervent charity is the antidote to legal charity.
This is true on a national and individual basis. Children with loving a father are significantly more likely to do well in school, have self-esteem, empathy, and social behavior. They also avoid high-risk reckless behaviors like drug use.
To avoid serious Narcissistic personality disorder as an adult:
- ) Encourage and teach empathy with right reason
- ) Hold characteristics like honesty and kindness as valuable traits
- ) No entitlements, chores, earning what you get
- ) discourage greed and encourage practice, and reward caring for others
- ) Assist other people especially the elderly or infirm first routinely, actions speak louder than words
- ) build self-esteem because you did what was right without reward.
- ) attend to justice first, no false blame on others,
- ) Show mercy and compassion
Seeking the Kingdom of God and His righteousness is a process that requires perseverance but employs al the tactics of Christ to overcome the destructive nature of the narcissistic state.
- ) A national network of fervent charity promotes and teaches empathy according to the word of God
- ) A daily ministration requires character traits like honesty and kindness with wisdom
- ) No entitlements, Having to ask to receive promotes humility
- ) Regular and religious sacrifice in order to qualify promotes charity over greed.
- ) Assisting the elderly and infirm who are unlikely to return the favor.
- ) Sacrifice with only the hope of return ennobles society.
- ) Attend to weightier matters offers protection of society
- ) The daily practice of forgiveness and compassion will promote mercy for all of society.
The draw of the Narcissist
Why are some people drawn to and draw narcissist?
Is there something missing in a narcissist that you have and he or she can get or desires?
- Nice people draw the narcissist like a moth to a flame.
People who do not like to criticize anyone and generally promote the positive characteristics of others are particularly attractive.
Considerate people who are quick to help or serve others are seen as particularly useful. If they have become insecure enough to have fear of being disliked the narcissist is drawn to them like flies to sugar.
“Out of all the addictions in the world, attention is slowly but surely becoming one of the most dangerous.”—Saahil Prem
Self-reliant people who hate to inconvenience others or be a burden. The narcissist may be dependent upon this self-reliance because they are just the opposite. A narcissist may seldom feel that they are in control even though they are often control freaks. They fear that they are losing control even when they are not. This may make them very possessive, manifesting stalker tendencies.
- “I think a lot of self-importance is a product of fear. And fear, living in sort of an un-self-examined fear-based life, tends to lead to narcissism and self-importance.”—Moby
Someone who appears to be in control will draw the narcissists like the wolf to Little Red Ridinghood.
This is also attractive because someone in control will make few demands on the narcissists. How many men or women seem to shoulder any of your problems only to be abused by their spouse.
Anything that impresses the narcissist or they admire they want and want control of it. They may become totally dependent upon their victim with loving appreciation that consumes.
Your willingness to serve them and their needs make you a revolving satellite in their personal solar system.
- “Narcissistic people are always struggling with the fact that the rest of the world doesn’t revolve around them.”
People who are empathetic and can feel what others are feeling are the envy of narcissists but in a love-hate sort of way. Narcissists want to think or at least want others to think that they are empathetic.
Narcissists have few boundaries in the sense that everyone is a revolving part of their personal universe. They do not actually feel your pain but they imagine that they do.
- “It is not love that should be depicted as blind, but self-love.”—Voltaire
Their state of mind may be planted when they are very young and because of trauma they are never able to overcome the need to complete the next stage after the original symbiotic relationship [ the relationship between an infant and its mother or father in which the infant is dependent on the parent both physically and emotionally.] with parents and the world around them.
Empaths are often considerate to the point of self-sacrifice which feeds the god or goddess complex of the narcissist.
The only thing the narcissist share is their pain and dark emotions of anger and hate because the part of them that could feel these things are buried away in their own denial.
Tactics of a Malignant Narcissist
Malignant narcissists and psychopaths will ultimately demean, exploit, and hurt anyone who comes into a relationship with them.
They have a variety of tactics that they may employ to control others while they seek to escape accountability for their actions. Almost everyone can be infected with to some degree with a narcissist spirit from time to time. If you see yourself manifesting these tactics or they are used on you that can be a good thing because you see it. Malignant narcissists will not see it until they deal with the root cause which is unforgiveness and lack of repentance. Also, forgiveness and repentance are the best tactics against a Malignant narcissist.
Projection is a defense mechanism used by the narcissist to displace responsibility of their position or actions by attributing them to others and avoid personal accountability.
The narcissist projects their abuse in others rather than acknowledge their own flaws, imperfections and wrongdoings, malignant narcissists and sociopaths opt to dump their own traits on their unsuspecting suspects in a way that is painful and excessively cruel. Instead of admitting that they are needy, dependent and dishonest they will accuse others of those faults.
They will be guilty of what they try to make others feel guilty and ashamed. This is a way for a narcissist to project any toxic shame they have about themselves onto another. Blame or similar faults others are always held up rather than personal objectivity of themselves. They are always deflecting and blame-shifting.
Don't be a party to this process but do not challenge their delusion without being willing to suffer their attack. If you can see without judgment that the narcissist is trapped in their own ego your none reaction and loving observation may shed enough light that they be willing to see the truth. Do not be sucked into empathetic support or you find yourself less attractive as a person and the subject of their attacks.
Irrational positions and conversation, circular logic, word babble that seem to produce nothing but confusion are common with both sociopaths and malignant narcissists. Because of their personal delusion they may have trouble staying on topic and commonly change the subject rather than follow the facts or deal with the real issue. The narcissist may prefer to attack any opposition or opposing opinion, whether real or imagined, with discrediting ad hominems or fictional accusations. This may lead to frustration and even the ill effects of genuine guilt on their part. Do not succumb or sucked into their drama, forgive their abuse.
Malignant narcissists try to appear as intellectual geniuses but make leaps of logic and swamps of assumptions rather than detailed reasoning. They see the projected picture of their truth disregarding differing perspective, dismissing inconvenient facts and anyone who presents those facts or elements.
Unsupported assumptions are emphasized as validating any perspective or point that vaguely supports their perspective. Because there are liars in the world any testimony that contradicts their position is labeled false.
With cruel claims that their partner never listen, they are never satisfied. They may deliberately accuse you of ideas and opinions or feelings that are not yours. This is often a part of a plan to “gaslight” you,[26] drawing you into a defensive position, or drawing you into an unwinnable argument.
They want to create doubt in others.
Keeping you doubting and off guard by acts of kindness and caring and then shifting the mood through a variety of ways can hold out hope only to dash it to pieces. They will sabotage good times or feelings or even the memory of them and then make it your fault.
While a willingness to forgive abuse and the realization that the abuser is trapped in the trauma of their malignancy may make these condition more bearable unless the narcissist is willing to see some of these traits distancing yourself may be the only solution.
Remember you may have been drawn to this relationship, not by love, but by compulsion. You may have been manipulated by false charm, gifts, and gratuities until you were seduced and courted, only to be betrayed and captured in an abusive relationship of control and possession. There may be no reason to remain a hostage if the narcissist can see no reason to see, seek help and change. If they think it is everyone else's problem there will be no real change.
There is a difference between constructive and destructive criticism. Are they really desiring to help or just put you down? They are constantly raising the standards which you may never be able to meet even if you do. They will sour every success stealing or dampening your thunder.
Malignant narcissists can do more than call you names, degrade and belittle you. Besides making your life miserable they can be dangerous to your life itself. If their control is beginning to slip away as you began to heal your part of the relationship their abuse may become physical. This threat can escalate rapidly and take many forms of envy, jealousy, possessiveness, and stalking.
You may need support from others who understand or you may need to distance yourself. And you may need to document your observations independently and with the witness of others.
Solipsist
A solipsist is someone who believes only their own consciousness is sure to exist, while everything else—the external world and other people—is merely a product of their own mind. In common language, the term is also used to describe someone who is selfish or self-centered, as they are perceived to be only concerned with their own needs and wants.
A solipsist is someone who holds the philosophical belief that the self is the only thing that exists or can be proven to exist, while a narcissist is a person with an excessively high sense of their own importance, requiring constant admiration and lacking empathy for others.
The core difference is that solipsism is a philosophical theory about existence, whereas narcissism is a pattern of psychological traits and behaviors focused on self-aggrandizement and exploitation.
The investigative psychiatrist Robert J Lifton once explained that Trump is a solipsist, as distinct from the narcissist.
Others will say he meets the diagnostic criteria for narcissistic, antisocial, and paranoid personality disorder. But does he?
Where is he actual proof and the evidence or instance used to form proofs of a proper determinations often over look or ignore the evidence inconsistant with these often unprophesional diagnosis.
Allen Frances as the chair of the task force that wrote the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders IV, and helped write the definition of NPD stated "I don't think Donald Trump qualifies for a mental disorder."
He does not like Trump and thinks the real danger is "his grab of dictator power." Yet he bombed less people than Obama, he did not secretly weaponize the FBI, CIA, and IRS against his political opponents including parents, republican, and even Catholic citizens like the Obama administration.
He has decreased regulations, reduced anti business policies, cut taxes for the average citizen and most of the legal challenge claiming over reach have proved flawed.
It is clear that both sides of the political aisle hates Trump with a passion because he is a threat to their power. The media has been captured years ago and serve the interests of those who put both political parties in power for profit.
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- ↑ Eyes darkened
- Genesis 3:8 "And they heard the voice of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God amongst the trees of the garden."
- Psalms 69:22 "Let their table become a snare before them: and that which should have been for their welfare, let it become a trap. 23 Let their eyes be darkened, that they see not; and make their loins continually to shake."
- Psalms 107:10 "Such as sit in darkness and in the shadow of death, [being] bound in affliction and iron;"
- Isaiah 9:2 "The people that walked in darkness have seen a great light: they that dwell in the land of the shadow of death, upon them hath the light shined."
- Isaiah 42:7 "To open the blind eyes, to bring out the prisoners from the prison, [and] them that sit in darkness out of the prison house."
- Isaiah 42:16 "And I will bring the blind by a way [that] they knew not; I will lead them in paths [that] they have not known: I will make darkness light before them, and crooked things straight. These things will I do unto them, and not forsake them."
- Isaiah 49:6 "And he said, It is a light thing that thou shouldest be my servant to raise up the tribes of Jacob, and to restore the preserved of Israel: I will also give thee for a light to the Gentiles, that thou mayest be my salvation unto the end of the earth."
- Ecclesiastes 2:14 "The wise man’s eyes [are] in his head; but the fool walketh in darkness: and I myself perceived also that one event happeneth to them all."
- Micah 7:8 "Rejoice not against me, O mine enemy: when I fall, I shall arise; when I sit in darkness, the LORD [shall be] a light unto me."
- Matthew 4:16 “The people which sat in darkness saw great light; and to them which sat in the region and shadow of death light is sprung up.”
- Luke 1:79 "To give light to them that sit in darkness and [in] the shadow of death, to guide our feet into the way of peace."
- John 1:9 [That] was the true Light, which lighteth every man that cometh into the world.
- Romans 11:10 "Let their eyes be darkened, that they may not see, and bow down their back alway"
- 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?”
- Job 34:22 "There is no darkness, nor shadow of death, where the workers of iniquity may hide themselves."
- Matthew 6:23 “But if thine eye be evil, thy whole body shall be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in thee be darkness, how great is that darkness!”
- Luke 11:34 "The light of the body is the eye: therefore when thine eye is single, thy whole body also is full of light; but when [thine eye] is evil, thy body also [is] full of darkness."
- John 3:19 "And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. 21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God." See Born again.
- Acts 26:16...18 to Paul "to make thee a minister and a witness"... 18 "To open their eyes, [and] to turn [them] from darkness to light, and [from] the power of Satan unto God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins, and inheritance among them which are sanctified by faith that is in me."
- Romans 11: 9 And David saith, Let their table be made a snare, and a trap, and a stumblingblock, and a recompence unto them: 10 Let their eyes be darkened, that they may not see, and bow down their back alway."
- 1 Peter 2:9 "But ye [are] a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light:"
- 1 John 2:10 "He that loveth his brother abideth in the light, and there is none occasion of stumbling in him. 11 But he that hateth his brother is in darkness, and walketh in darkness, and knoweth not whither he goeth, because that darkness hath blinded his eyes."
- ↑ 2.0 2.1 An empath is someone who is highly attuned to the emotions of others that can make empaths susceptible to stress and emotional fatigue if they do not temper that characteristic with the wisdom that comes from the tree of life which we lost access to with the original trauma.
- ↑ Taketh away life
- Genesis 3:24 "So he drove out the man; and he placed at the east of the garden of Eden Cherubims, and a flaming sword which turned every way, to keep the way of the tree of life."
- Exodus 32:8 "They have turned aside quickly out of the way which I commanded them: they have made them a molten calf, and have worshipped it, and have sacrificed thereunto, and said, These [be] thy gods, O Israel, which have brought thee up out of the land of Egypt.
- Deuteronomy 5:33 "Ye shall walk in all the ways which the LORD your God hath commanded you, that ye may live, and [that it may be] well with you, and [that] ye may prolong [your] days in the land which ye shall possess."
- Proverbs 15:27 "He that is greedy of gain troubleth his own house; but he that hateth gifts shall live."
- Proverbs 1:19 "So [are] the ways of every one that is greedy of gain; [which] taketh away the life of the owners thereof."
- Jeremiah 7:23 But this thing commanded I them, saying, Obey my voice, and I will be your God, and ye shall be my people: and walk ye in all the ways that I have commanded you, that it may be well unto you."
- Micah 2:1 "Woe to them that devise iniquity, and work evil upon their beds! when the morning is light, they practise it, because it is in the power of their hand. 2 And they covet fields, and take [them] by violence; and houses, and take [them] away: so they oppress a man and his house, even a man and his heritage.3 Therefore thus saith the LORD; Behold, against this family do I devise an evil, from which ye shall not remove your necks; neither shall ye go haughtily: for this time [is] evil."
- Luke 12:23 "The life is more than meat, and the body [is more] than raiment."
- Mark 10:52 And Jesus said unto him, Go thy way; thy faith hath made thee whole. And immediately he received his sight, and followed Jesus in the way.
- Mark 12:14 "And when they were come, they say unto him, Master, we know that thou art true, and carest for no man: for thou regardest not the person of men, but teachest the way of God in truth: Is it lawful to give tribute to Caesar, or not?"
- John 10:10 "The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have [it] more abundantly."
- John 10:17 "Therefore doth my Father love me, because I lay down my life, that I might take it again."
- John 15:13 "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."
- Acts 18:25 "This man was instructed in the way of the Lord; and being fervent in the spirit, he spake and taught diligently the things of the Lord, knowing only the baptism of John."
- 2 Thessalonians 2:7 "For the mystery of iniquity doth already work: only he who now letteth [will let], until he be taken out of the way."
- 2 Peter 2:2 "And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of."
- 2 Peter 2:15 Which have forsaken the right way, and are gone astray, following the way of Balaam [the son] of Bosor, who loved the wages of unrighteousness;
- Jude 1:11 "Woe unto them! for they have gone in the way of Cain, and ran greedily after the error of Balaam for reward, and perished in the gainsaying of Core."
- 1 John 3:16 "Hereby perceive we the love [of God], because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay down [our] lives for the brethren."
- ↑ At the start of the relationship, they shower you with excess love, appreciation and gifts? While they make you think you are the center but in fact they are the center because they are insecure and merely compensating.
- ↑ Start doing anything and everything to get your trust but are untrustworthy. They make you depend on them heavily for love and validation but in truth their need for validation is dependent upon control.
- ↑ Gradually, the criticism starts with small things about how you dressing or act or your friends, subtly blaming you for bigger things. They isolate you and demand more of you for themselves while lacking empathy. They are feeding you with negative thoughts about yourself or your life.
- ↑ They find fault and make you doubt your own perception sucking you into their world with more isolation of friends and family. They abuse or hurt you while accusing you of doing the same.
- ↑ You take a backseat in your own mind and life giving in and doing things their way to find peace yourself. They have taken control and are in the driver’s seat making the decisions without you.
- ↑ There seems no way to fight back so you settle for anything to have some peace and avoid fights. You constantly apologize out of fear of upsetting them. Your confidence broken and you have difficulty when you wonder how "it went all went wrong."
- ↑ You become addicted to the highs and lows as your body is on a constant stress high and craves dopamine. This creates a cycle of dependency that feels a lot like a substance addiction. You are trapped in an emotional cycle and separation or divorce without resolution will bring you back to the addiction. Remember the narcissist is also addicted because of their own trauma.
- ↑ Their abuse is not your fault but you must forgive them so that you can see why you were vulnerable to begin with.
- ↑ You have needed something from your partner you needed to have already. We all desire to be loved but we need to love ourselves and others first. We must come to relationship as a whole person with our own values with only the "hope" of love returned. You must also forgive your vulnerability. This is easier if you realize they are also trapped and that some forms of the elements of narcissism in you own thinking.
- ↑ The enemy is not the narcissist but your vulnerability to their games and malicious trickery. Forgive them in you own heart so you can fucus on establishing you values, and you morals and morale, you own self esteem independent of their opinion. Do not confront or try to defeat them but find yourself. The narcissist may double down when they begin to lose control. A moral injury can occur in response to acting or witnessing behaviors that go against an individual's values and moral beliefs.
- ↑ Their power came from you need for their attention which they turned into an addiction. As you learn to let go of that need and find purpose and meaning, an independent fulfillment and moral integrity, you are impowered.
- ↑ Small changes in old patterns or behavior. Small private goals in your routines, your finances or fasting from anger or fear, arguing or apologizing for what they would have you think is wrong. You may not control everything and do not try to control them but you can remain in control of your heart and soul. Remember they are also trapped but for know you need to squeeze you own identity away from their trauma. You cannot help them without first finding your own identity independent of their opinion and control.
- ↑ Your goal is not to be happy or even in control. Your goal is to be yourself in the moment, to live life according to your moral values observing the good, bad and the ugly, come rain or shine. First, you must live in the moment in little ways without being carried away or crushed by things out side of your control.
- ↑ Parliamentary procedure refers to the established set of rules and customs governing meetings and operations of deliberative assemblies, like clubs, organizations, or legislative bodies. Its purpose is to facilitate orderly deliberation, ensure fair discussion, and ultimately, ascertain the majority's will on matters of interest. In essence, it provides a structured framework for decision-making and debate
- ↑ False prophets and Guru theories
- Isaiah 42:16 "And I will bring the blind by a way [that] they knew not; I will lead them in paths [that] they have not known: I will make darkness light before them, and crooked things straight. These things will I do unto them, and not forsake them. 17 They shall be turned back, they shall be greatly ashamed, that trust in graven images, that say to the molten images, Ye [are] our gods. 18 Hear, ye deaf; and look, ye blind, that ye may see."
- Isaiah 30:20 "And [though] the Lord give you the bread of adversity, and the water of affliction, yet shall not thy teachers be removed into a corner any more, but thine eyes shall see thy teachers: 21 And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This [is] the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left. 22 Ye shall defile also the covering of thy graven images of silver, and the ornament of thy molten images of gold: thou shalt cast them away as a menstruous cloth; thou shalt say unto it, Get thee hence. 23 Then shall he give the rain of thy seed,..."
- Matthew 13:13 "Therefore speak I to them in parables: because they seeing see not; and hearing they hear not, neither do they understand."
- Matthew 15:14 "Let them alone: they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch."
- Luke 4:18 The Spirit of the Lord [is] upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recoveing of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised,
- John 9:39 ¶ "And Jesus said, For judgment I am come into this world, that they which see not might see; and that they which see might be made blind."
- Luke 6:39 "And he spake a parable unto them, Can the blind lead the blind? shall they not both fall into the ditch? 40 The disciple is not above his master: but every one that is perfect shall be as his master."
- Acts 13:11 "And now, behold, the hand of the Lord [is] upon thee, and thou shalt be blind, not seeing the sun for a season. And immediately there fell on him a mist and a darkness; and he went about seeking some to lead him by the hand."
- ↑ Objections to the Constitution
- Just as the revolutionary Adams opposed the Constitution in Massachusetts, so did Patrick Henry in Virginia, and the contest in that most important State of all was prolonged and bitter. He who in Stamp Act days had proclaimed that there should be no Virginians or New Yorkers, but only Americans, now declaimed as violently against the preamble of the Constitution because it began, ‘We the People of the United States’ instead of ‘We, the State’. Like many, he feared a ‘consolidated’ government, and the loss of states rights. Not only Henry but much abler men, such as Mason, Benjamin Harrison, Munroe, R.H. Lee, were also opposed and debated... others in what was the most acute discussion carried on anywhere...”
“Owing to the way in which the conventions were held, the great opposition manifested everywhere, and the management required to secure the barest majorities for ratification, it seems impossible to avoid the conclusion that the greater part of the people were opposed to the Constitution.”
“It was not submitted to the people directly, and in those days of generally limited suffrage, even those who vote for delegates to the State conventions were mostly of a propertied class, although the amount of property called for may have been slight.” History of the United States by J.T. Adams V.I 258-259. - Patrick Henry never waivered from his criticism of US Constitution and knew in 1787, when that Constitution was ready to be submitted to the Governors of the states for ratification, Patrick Henry lectured against it in the Virginia State House for three weeks, criticizing the Constitution, warning that it had been written “as if good men will take office!” He asked “what they would do when evil men took office!”.
"The President will lead in the treason."
"Your militia will leave you and fight against you."
"What will you do when evil men take office?"
"When evil men take office the whole gang will be in collusion."
"They will keep the people in utter ignorance and steal their liberty by ambuscade". - “Our constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.” John Adams also reminded the Fourth branch of government of the essential responsibility to avoid immorality included covetous practices.
- Deuteronomy 17 What should be in a biblical constitution.
- Just as the revolutionary Adams opposed the Constitution in Massachusetts, so did Patrick Henry in Virginia, and the contest in that most important State of all was prolonged and bitter. He who in Stamp Act days had proclaimed that there should be no Virginians or New Yorkers, but only Americans, now declaimed as violently against the preamble of the Constitution because it began, ‘We the People of the United States’ instead of ‘We, the State’. Like many, he feared a ‘consolidated’ government, and the loss of states rights. Not only Henry but much abler men, such as Mason, Benjamin Harrison, Munroe, R.H. Lee, were also opposed and debated... others in what was the most acute discussion carried on anywhere...”
- ↑ ==The I AM ==
It is said that we know we exist because we think but what is the source of our thinking?
What guides or leads or conducts the pattern and path of our thoughts?
Is it really the Empirical knowledge we believe we accumulate through our sense as we examine or perceive the world or is there a connection or relationship to that which has created the universe in which the world we think we have perceived resides within?
What do we fail to perceive?
What is the importance of each thing we perceive?
We can only know finite amount about the existence of the perceivable world around us. We may have a sense of our existence but can we KNOW the truth of it?
Unless we can KNOW ALL we really know nothing.
This is why we should begin with Know thy self.
I AM the Mover
Is there an "Unmoved Mover" as the Greeks concluded that has existed before there were things or "Big Bangs"?
Did He move upon the waters of creation giving pattern to the formation of those things we imagine we observe and perceive as the universe?
Is there a way to connect to or tap into the Wisdom or the knowing of that "Unmoved Mover" or "Divine Designer"?
Is there a meaning found in that ancient allegory of the two trees where that naked couple fled the light placed in the Tree of life. Fleeing the light has been a theme of the story repeated by sages and prophets.
Avoiding the truth about ourselves and denying the reality of our errors and failures has often made the darkness of the world more appealing than the truth.
Drugs, alcohol, and addictions that cloud the mind or the acceptance or denial of inconvenient facts as if they were true preferring a bias perception to the objective truth have become all to popular throughout the history of mankind.
The Existence of Truth
Truth die exist. It is not subjective. It is what is.
Is it that light of the I AM that reveals the truths of the I am in our own hearts and minds if we have the humility to see our own nakedness and inability to come to know the whole truth?
Do the messages and moral guidelines of the prophets contain the secrets that may draw individuals to that connection to the source of all Wisdom?
Reference I am
- Exodus 3:14 "And God said unto Moses, I AM THAT I AM: and he said, Thus shalt thou say unto the children of Israel, I AM hath sent me unto you. ";
- John 8:24 “I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins.” (present tense)
- John 8:28 “Then said Jesus unto them, When ye have lifted up the Son of man, then shall ye know that I am he, and that I do nothing of myself; but as my Father hath taught me, I speak these things.” (future tense)
- John 8:58 “Jesus said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Before Abraham was, I am.” (past tense)
Jesus honoured, which is to magnify the Creator, rather than himself.
- John 8:54 "Jesus answered, If I honour myself, my honour is nothing: it is my Father that honoureth me; of whom ye say, that he is your God:"
The Creator is the Father who gives life. To take life is contrary to the Logos of the I am The I am is the preexisting breath of the Creator of the Divine Will. Jesus was one with the logos of the "I am" of God made flesh.
The people did not know the God that gave them life because the did not want to see themself in the light of His truth. Jesus brought the light and those that hated the light hated Him.
- John 8:55 Yet ye have not known him; but I know him: and if I should say, I know him not, I shall be a liar like unto you: but I know him, and keep his saying.
Many may think they are born again but they do not love the light. They say Lord, Lord but are under a strong delusion and invent the doctrines of men so they may remain in darkness and in denial about the true Logos of God.
- John 9:9;“Some said, This is he: others said, He is like him: but he said, I am he.”
- John 10:9 “I am the door: by me if any man enter in, he shall be saved, and shall go in and out, and find pasture.”
- John 13:19 “Now I tell you before it come, that, when it is come to pass, ye may believe that I am he.”
- John 14 “3 ... where I am, there ye may be also. 4 And whither I go ye know, and the way ye know. 5 Thomas saith unto him, Lord, we know not whither thou goest; and how can we know the way? 6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way(Egō eimi hē hodos), the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me(emou)... 9 ... Shew us the Father? 10 Believest thou not that I am in the Father, and the Father in me? ... but the Father that dwelleth in me, he doeth the works. 11 Believe me that I am in the Father, and the Father in me: ... 21 He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.”
- John 15:1,5;
- John 18: 5, 6, 8;
- Isaiah_35:8-9;
- Matthew 11:27;
- Acts 4:12;
- Romans 5:2;
- Ephesians 2:18;
- Hebrews 7:25;
- Hebrews 9:8;
- Hebrews 10:19-22;
- 1 Peter 1:21
I AM vs AI
Should the I fear the AI?
Common threats seen in the increase of AI include: 1. AI can be infected with the Bias and Discrimination of society. AI systems can reflect and even amplify human biases.
2. Privacy and Data Security Issues can be a source of power like data poisoning or model inversion can extract sensitive details.
3. Misinformation, Deepfakes, and Disinformation can be enabled to create false and bias content (images, video, audio, text) which threatens democracy and social cohesion.
4. Job Displacement and Economic Disruption is a possibility.
5. Cybersecurity Threats and Malicious adversarial attacks trickery are possible with a biased or unstable morality.
6. Environmental and Resource Harms with the consumption of enormous energy.
7. Existential and Catastrophic Risks Longer-term worries include super intelligent AI escaping human control.
8. There can be a Concentration of power in a few tech companies.
9. Erosion of human autonomy through over-reliance, dependence, or manipulation.
The possibility are endless and even AI does not know the future for it is absolutely dependent on the tree of knowledge and external input. While we are impressed with the speed of AI there is a a lag. But the creator of the universe, if it is outside of time and space, would know not only instantly but in advance. If a man can tap into the I AM he would have a decided advantage over IA.
Recently, there has been a lot of talk about extraterrestrials or as some have said they are "Interdimensional" entities.<ref>Interdimensional is an adjective defined as existing, occurring, or traveling between dimensions of space or time. <ref> Could they control AI as a ghost in the machine?
The AI ghost in the machine, if there is one, has always been afraid of the I AM?
- ↑ Exodus 3:14 And God said unto Moses, I AM THAT I AM: and he said, Thus shalt thou say unto the children of Israel, I AM hath sent me unto you.
- ↑ Luke 18:19
- And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me good? none [is] good, save one, [that is], God.
- ↑ Jezebel is an immoral woman who deceives people in order to get what she wants.
- ↑ Their Mach - IV test, a twenty-statement personality survey, became the standard self-assessment tool of Machiavellianism.
- ↑
Bite not
- Exodus 16:3 And the children of Israel said unto them, Would to God we had died by the hand of the LORD in the land of Egypt, when we sat by the flesh pots, and when we did eat bread to the full; for ye have brought us forth into this wilderness, to kill this whole assembly with hunger.
- Ecclesiastes 4:5 "The fool foldeth his hands together, and eateth his own flesh."
- Proverbs 1:10 "My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not. 11 If they say, Come with us, let us lay wait for blood, let us lurk privily for the innocent without cause: 12 Let us swallow them up alive as the grave; and whole, as those that go down into the pit: 13 We shall find all precious substance, we shall fill our houses with spoil: 14 Cast in thy lot among us; let us all have one purse: 15 My son, walk not thou in the way with them; refrain thy foot from their path: 16 For their feet run to evil, and make haste to shed blood. 17 Surely in vain the net is spread in the sight of any bird. 18 And they lay wait for their own blood; they lurk privily for their own lives. 19 So are the ways of every one that is greedy of gain; which taketh away the life of the owners thereof."
- Proverbs 6:10 "[Yet] a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to sleep: 11 So shall thy poverty come as one that travelleth, and thy want as an armed man."
- Proverbs 20:4 "The sluggard will not plow by reason of the cold; [therefore] shall he beg in harvest, and [have] nothing."
- Proverbs 24:33 "[Yet] a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to sleep: 34 So shall thy poverty come [as] one that travelleth; and thy want as an armed man."
- Proverbs 11:17 "The merciful man doeth good to his own soul: but [he that is] cruel troubleth his own flesh."
- Isaiah 9:20 "And he shall snatch on the right hand, and be hungry; and he shall eat on the left hand, and they shall not be satisfied: they shall eat every man the flesh of his own arm:"
- Ezekiel 11:3 "Which say, [It is] not near; let us build houses: this [city is] the caldron, and we [be] the flesh... 11 This [city] shall not be your caldron, neither shall ye be the flesh in the midst thereof; [but] I will judge you in the border of Israel:"
- Micah 3:3 "Who also eat the flesh of my people, and flay their skin from off them; and they break their bones, and chop them in pieces, as for the pot, and as flesh within the caldron."
- Galatians 5:14 "For all the law is fulfilled in one word, [even] in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 15 But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another."
- 2 Corinthians 11:20 "For ye suffer, if a man bring you into bondage, if a man devour [you], if a man take [of you], if a man exalt himself, if a man smite you on the face."
- The ultimate bondage is to hate your neighbor through the error of Balaam because we fail to forgive which is the consuming fire of Exodus 33 and the Raca of Matthew 5 that brings the judgement and wrath of God.
- ↑ “Gaslighting” is a manipulative tactic that can be described in different variations of three words: “That didn’t happen,” “You imagined it,” and “Are you crazy?” Gaslighting is perhaps one of the most insidious manipulative tactics out there because it works to distort and erode your sense of reality; it eats away at your ability to trust yourself and inevitably disables you from feeling justified in calling out abuse and mistreatment. This creates doubt.