Principles

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Common Principles

  1. Cultivate Mindful Stability [1]
  2. Real connections through truth [2]
  3. Engage and Exculpate[3]
  4. Embrace Continuous growth [4]
  5. Divine five states of Kindness[5]

PERMA model of well-being

  • Positive Emotions: Cultivate feelings of hope, interest, joy, love, compassion, pride, optimism, and gratitude toward good and bad with equal enthusiasm.
  • Engagement: Flow with all you touch and touches you in the present with the whole of thy self while sacrificing yourself with a complete focus and absorption in life's activities.
  • Relationships: Encompass each and all social virtues in building and maintain the strength of all the social bonds which appear from the honest pursuit of the same.
  • Meaning: Pursue a purpose larger than yourself, often through helping others.
  • Accomplishment: Set goals and achieve them, fostering a sense of competence and success.[6]
  1. Embrace the Truth of What You Cannot Control: Understand that certain things are outside your power and accept them with equanimity.
  2. Desire Nothing that which is rightfully Outside Your Control: Avoid craving external validation or things you can't influence, as this leads to unhappiness.
  3. Trust in Nature: See events as woven into a larger, interconnected pattern of existence.
  4. Live by Principle: Act in accordance with your deeply held moral values.
  5. Rely on Yourself: Withdraw into yourself to cultivate inner strength and focus on self-improvement.

General Principles for a fulfilling life:

Invest in Yourself: Take care of your physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. Value Time: Recognize that time is your most valuable and limited resource, and use it wisely. Take Ownership: Acknowledge that you are responsible for your choices and how you handle challenges. Give More Than You Take: Focus on the effect you have on others and the value you contribute. Never Stop Learning: Cultivate a mindset of continuous learning and growth.

Natural principles

  1. Centralization of the power of choice degenerates individual power.
  2. Natural Wisdom over contrived wisdom from artificial or vain intelligence.
  3. Know thy Self
  4. Values, virtues
  5. Openly question all presumptions, ideas, and notion.

Footnotes

  1. Model calm and composure: to influence those around you, as a calm demeanor can be contagious. Use your emotions as clues: to unmet needs, allowing you to better understand and manage them. Approach others with Care curiosity and empathy, recognizing that their actions are often rooted in their own fears and insecurities.
  2. Foster Real connections through Honest Communication Build trust and connection: through open, honest, and self vulnerable communication with others with that same caring respect and love.
  3. Control What You Can & Accept What You Can't. If rights are individually held responsibilities are also individually are accepted.
    Yet, man is social creature so the way we work, walk together in a society must be based on trust, respect, and love.
  4. Be a lifelong learner, focusing on developing skills in resilience, innovation, and critical thinking. Accept that learning and change are constant: and that adapting to new rules is essential for thriving.
  5. Love thy neighbor, Forgive your enemy -Focus on connection: through shared vulnerability and acts of kindness rather than trying to be right or win an argument.
  6. Perma originally stood for Positive Emotion, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, and Accomplishment which was developed by psychologist Martin Seligman to promote well-being and happiness in life.